So, after the first machine shop not being able to figure out what's wrong, they sent it to heads unlimited for repair, who also can't figure out whats wrong. Worse is that the head isn't repairable, heads unlimited won't even touch it.
Worser (not english i know, but roll with it) is that the intake cam was also scored just as bad as the exhaust side. I didn't notice because i didnt bother to pull it out after i took the exhaust cam out. Both shops say it's the head that's the problem, but don't know why. Cam caps are correctly done, cams don't appear to be bent, and i spun both cams in the head myself before i put the motor together, so i know they were spinning fine.
I'm quite confused at this point, but it's clear i'll need a new head. Which means all the port work has to be done again, valve seating, need new seals and valves. I've got valves on the way, hopefully here today.
To say i'm confused, worried and annoyed would be an accurate statement.